I know that you cannot hate other people without hating yourself - Oprah Winfrey
There you go. If you hating people that meant that you are actually hating yourself right?
Before, I hated someone. But now..
Currently I didn't hate anyone. But I'm not a type that forgive people who tease and humiliate me that easily.
I just think that if you know that if you contact with a person whom you know it will only makes the worst out of both of your friendship. Its better to have no contact or connection or whatsoever.
I pick what my father say. If you know that if befriending a person can do bad to you, why care to go on with it? You will only end up only hurting yourself more. The person that you need to love and protect more than anyone in this world is YOU! Yourself!
I also would like to pick my friend phrase in her shout out. "Delete me? Just facebook or your entire life?
I want to laugh so hard. Why? Yeah actually even facebook could invite turmoils between people. Even facebook could easily ruin any friendship. Maybe people today didn't appreciate the value of friends anymore. Deleting people as if just throwing thrash in the garbage can. Saying selfish and humiliate people at their back by posting on other people facebook or their facebook. Woah. Fabulous. I've been in this situation so like I understand how she feels.
Maybe their pride are so huge like sea that they think that they are always right.
Maybe they believe that even a delicate mistake is like a bunch of smelly mud.
Maybe that they think that people can't correct, admit and apologize for their mistakes but only they can easily do all that.
Just like eating a piece of cake.
If not talking or communicating is the best for both people, I believe it is better to be just that way.
If you can't say anything nice better don't say anything at all.
Rather than adding some fuel to the amount of sin, better we gain more satisfaction or achievement for ourself. That's better right?
In short, I have lost all of respect to that person that I have before although before I have always been very respectful to people older than me. Age is not a passport to treat people hideously. Don't expect me to respect you anymore because I won't. For me, give respect to others then you could get some respect.
And ONCE I said it, I really MEANT it.
5 comments:
just let it go dear.. i know it might sounds easy.. but in fact, no one knows how u feel.. but try to let it go, then u will feel relieve.. :)
I let it go already hana. That's why I don't give a damn anymore on that person.
It's just that when you already let it go and forget a thing about them because you're trying to forgive them on what they said about you and stuff, then suddenly you found out that, that person throw salt to your eyes again by picking out your name among several people and humiliate you saying stuff like I didn't do my job.
That really piss me off, cause only Allah knows the hell I've been through alone trying to make things done. That person doesn't know or maybe that person are so blind not to see.
All that person know is bragging like as though that person did all the work. That person only did the best and right thing. Even when I ask for that person help at first, that person happily rejected my offer. When my other friend invite that person then that person okay with it.
Why bragging like you care about the group if at first you have no interest in contributing? How self centered.
For me, if you reject that offer, why do you need to accept the second other offer? What are you trying to show here? What's the difference between I ask for help than the other person?
Ohh, maybe I'm super junior. When that person want to move a group, then suddenly out of nowhere messaging and calling asking for my help as though that person never did a mistake. Pretending that nothing happened after all the humiliation and harsh words that person uttered to me?
I even storied to my friends in UMP and she disbelieved it. She knows very well on how much I strained and invested my money, energy and time. I've stressed out because not everyone giving their commitment and helps along the way.
I lost most of my credits. My mom and dad had to paid much for it and even I have had my hp barred because of that. Yet, I didn't claim for it. Why? because I am using bill and THAT person knows well.
I even had to humiliate myself by have had to cancel the place that I've booked earlier.
Why pick my name hah? Why asking continuously for my help if you know I did not do my job hah?
Even I never used that person name in any of my facebook entries. So pathetic. Never in my mind to humiliate a person like that person did to me.
That's that. I let it all go already.
I don't like to tell people what I did because that is not a TRUE INTEGRITY and not what a true leader should be. But, because to clear things out that what that person announce to the world is untrue.
So now. If that person wants to humiliate me more, that person are welcome. Like my friend say, let they said silly things about you, because the truth will prevail by itself.
erk. dun ever say such things to yourself. it is a no no good.
you storied to me about how he try to k*** you, i think I couldn't forget that.
anyway. past is past. I really don't want to mind about it anymore.
because now I'm concentrating about lies ahead for me rather than trying to catch again glimpse of the past.
if you know you had been kind enough in every relation you had, you never had to regret anything about it. just proceed. because whatever it is, life goes on.
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